I'm divided and in love. When in New York I love New York. In Mexico City I love Mexico City. In Guadalajara I love Guadalajara. I commute one month to New York the next to Guadalajara, even when this means missing - or not even building a routine in Mexico City. I used to be tired of travel for work, but I now travel each month by choice.  I just spent ten days at our Upper West Side apartment and reminded myself how much I miss the energy of New York, the gold rush added to a constant need to be out there. The constant fear to miss out. But, what are the things you should let go, how to prioritize? I'm about to become 36 and I don't own any property, have any substantial savings or have children, but I have not missed out of many other life-changng experiences. It is now, that I'm getting closer to 40 that the question becomes inevitable. Should I miss out of having children? Should I miss out of a life of adventurous travel? Should I miss out of opening my own business? Should I miss out of living in a new city? Should I miss out of buying a home? And if not, where? Where would you buy a home if home is transitory? And, can I have it all? I want to keep living in the places I call home, I want to keep traveling to places unknown, I want to keep learning with any new project I undertake, I want to build a family of friends and probably children, I want not to be alone while learning to be so. I want to stay in love with what life brings.